Lachvinder "Lucky" Cheema died after eating aconite-poisoned curry at his West London home on or about January 27, 2009. The source reports that his longtime secret lover and sister-in-law by marriage, Lakhvir Singh, had maintained a 16-year affair with him while both were married to other people. After Cheema became engaged to Gerji Chung in an arranged marriage, Singh allegedly obtained aconite in India and contaminated curry left in his refrigerator. Cheema and Chung became critically ill; Cheema died, while Chung survived. Singh denied responsibility, was acquitted of attempting to kill Chung, but was convicted of Cheema's murder and sentenced to life imprisonment with a 23-year minimum term.
Country: England
State/Province: London, England
City/Region: West London
Incident Type: Murder
Relationship Status: Love triangle
Relationship Duration: Approximately 16 years (affair)
Recorded context: Desire to replace or leave current partner
Reported initiator: Victim
Relationship timing: During marriage or ongoing partnership, before separation
Incident Date: Jan. 27, 2009
Primary reported outcome: Homicide
Reported self-harm outcome: No suicide or attempt reported
Reported sequence: Order not reported / unclear
Additional victims reported: 1
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Approximately 16 years (affair)
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2009-01-27
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Romantic Triangle
The source describes a long-running secret affair between Singh and Cheema, complicated by both parties' marriages and extended-family ties. Cheema's arranged engagement to Chung ended Singh's expectation that she and Cheema would eventually marry. Reported threats, continued access to Cheema's home, acquisition of aconite, and the poisoning of shared food preceded Cheema's death and Chung's survival.
The investigation reportedly connected the deaths and illness to poisoned curry, witness observations of Singh at the refrigerator, Cheema's emergency allegation, Singh's access to the home, her prior India trip, and aconite found in her pocket and handbag. Cyanide and toxic metals were reportedly considered or ruled out before toxicology identified aconite. Singh denied the offense and blamed an uninvolved brother-in-law, while also claiming the aconite was herbal medicine for a rash. She was convicted of Cheema's murder, acquitted of attempting to kill Chung, and sentenced to life imprisonment with a 23-year minimum term; the source states parole eligibility in 2033.
The earlier severe illness was initially attributed by family to Cheema's occupational exposure to chemicals, and the cause was not identified at the time. The later poisoning investigation was complicated by the difficulty of detecting aconite and by uncertainty over whether the earlier illness was also deliberate. Singh denied responsibility and offered an alternative accusation against her brother-in-law.
Cheema entered an extended-family household in West London after a short-lived arranged marriage and began a secret relationship with Singh, who was married to a relative by marriage. The affair reportedly continued for approximately 16 years, with Singh regularly cooking and cleaning for Cheema while expecting that they would eventually marry. In 2008, Cheema became engaged to Chung through a family-arranged introduction and planned a Valentine's Day wedding. Singh reportedly reacted with persistent messages, threats, continued visits, and an India trip during which she obtained aconite. On January 27, 2009, witnesses reportedly saw her handle curry in Cheema's refrigerator; Cheema and Chung later ate it, became critically ill, and Cheema identified Singh during a 999 call. Cheema died, Chung survived, and forensic, witness, medical, and circumstantial evidence supported the prosecution case.
The reported risk pattern included prolonged secrecy, intense attachment, rejection of a clear relationship boundary, threats against Cheema and Chung, continued access to Cheema's home, and alleged acquisition of a lethal poison. The source does not establish that every earlier warning sign was understood as an imminent homicide risk, and psychological explanations remain source-limited.
The source highlights the combination of a hidden long-term affair, unresolved expectations of marriage, rejection, threats, continued access to a former partner's home, and acquisition of a lethal substance. A prior unexplained poisoning-like illness and explicit threats were reported as important missed or underappreciated warning signs. The account is useful for relationship-pattern comparison but includes expert interpretation and reconstructed motives that should not be treated as independent proof of intent.
The most significant reported early signals were Singh's refusal to accept Cheema's stated breakup, repeated messages, threats to Cheema and Chung, statements that she could not forget her feelings, continued access to Cheema's home, and the alleged earlier unexplained illness. The source also identifies the India trip and acquisition of aconite as a major escalation indicator.
The case was reportedly connected through Cheema's 999 allegation, Chung's surviving account, witness observations of Singh handling the curry, Singh's keys and regular food preparation, the timing of her India trip, the unusual poison found in her pocket and handbag, and toxicology identifying aconite in food or related evidence.
The strongest reported evidence included toxicology and forensic food-residue analysis, aconite recovered from Singh's personal belongings, CCTV showing relatives carrying Cheema to a vehicle, witness observations at the refrigerator, Chung's account, Cheema's contemporaneous emergency allegation, and relationship and travel evidence. The prosecution case was described as circumstantial but compelling when the items were considered together.
Cheema reportedly told the emergency operator that he believed his ex-girlfriend had poisoned the food and told lodger Helen that they had been poisoned. Helen described finding both victims severely ill and said Cheema's relatives arrived to help. Another resident reportedly saw Singh go to the refrigerator and handle the curry. Chung reportedly confirmed that she and Cheema ate the curry and described Singh's access to the house and food preparation. Family witnesses described Cheema's engagement and his prior warnings about visitors.
The understanding changed from an unexplained earlier illness, initially associated with Cheema's work with chemicals, to a suspected deliberate poisoning after the second incident affected both Cheema and Chung. Toxicology then shifted the focus from suspected cyanide or toxic metals to aconite. Court evidence further connected Singh's relationship history, India trip, belongings, access, and witness observations, while her defense disputed responsibility.
The source leaves unclear whether Singh was responsible for the earlier illness, what her exact intention was regarding Chung, and whether she expected the poisoned curry to kill one or both people. The source also presents psychological interpretations about her wish to be discovered or rescued, but these are not established clinical findings. The precise preparation and timing of the poison are not fully detailed.