Public cases3471People recorded18856Victims5395Suspects3916Offenders570Married cases1861
Reported / Alleged Motives
Possible goals attributed in public sources—not findings of fact.
Reported jealousy
1924
Reported retaliation or revenge
1556
Reported financial or material gain
752
Reported relationship-elimination intent
1588
Reported fear of exposure or reputation harm
600
Recorded Behavioral Patterns & Red Flags
Documented tactics, behaviors, or warning signs in the public record.
Coercive control dynamics
1797
Stalking & unwanted pursuit
491
Economic abuse & financial coercion
58
Extortion & reputation blackmail will appear once it is separately source-coded.
Contextual & Contributing Factors
Reported circumstances or background conditions; they are not presented as motives.
Custody or parental rights dispute
287
Reported suspicion of infidelity
1060
Family, honor, or social-pressure context
1571
Interfaith/intercaste relationship context
21
Documented financial strain or debt
1148
Reported mental health / psychological stressor
386
Reported substance use or alcohol involvement
289
Pregnancy or reproductive context will appear once it is separately source-coded.
1257 matching cases retain the legacy broad label “Control/domination.” It is not automatically redistributed into narrower motive or behavior categories without source-supported review.
People
Gender by Case Role
MaleFemaleTransgenderUnknown
Victims5395 total
Male
2094
Female
3273
Transgender
0
Suspects3916 total
Male
2898
Female
1004
Transgender
0
Unknown
14
Offenders570 total
Male
421
Female
149
Transgender
0
Unknown
0
8975 people have another or unassigned case role.
Dataset coverage
Recorded Cases by Incident Year
3471total public cases
This is RelationWatch dataset coverage by incident year, not annual prevalence. Earlier years are incomplete because records are being added from publicly available open sources.
Cases
Relationship Status
3145recorded status
Married1861
59.2%
Dating291
9.3%
Ex-partners181
5.8%
Divorced169
5.4%
Separated152
4.8%
Live-in relationship148
4.7%
Engaged124
3.9%
Extramarital relationship105
3.3%
Love triangle44
1.4%
Ex-husband17
0.5%
Secret Marriage17
0.5%
One-sided love12
0.4%
Rejected proposal9
0.3%
Colleague6
0.2%
Ex-wife6
0.2%
Bachelor3
0.1%
Married1861
Dating, engaged or live-in/cohabiting563
Relationship status was not established in available public sources for 326 public cases. These records are excluded from this chart’s categories and percentages.
Financial motive or factor1229Revenge motive or factor1556Inheritance/property motive or factor145
Combined structured factors and motives
Top Reasons Associated with Relationship Failure
Infidelity / extramarital relationship
2002
Jealousy
1924
Revenge
1556
Family pressure
1539
Divorce / Separation
1531
Control/domination
1257
Financial stress or disputes
1110
Domestic abuse or violence reported
909
Money / Financial Gain
704
Eliminate spouse
636
One public case may appear under multiple labels. These are recorded associations in the selected RelationWatch cases, not proven causes or population prevalence.
Separate recorded categories
Relationship Elimination Motives
Eliminate spouse
636
Eliminate romantic partner
609
Eliminate romantic rival
381
Spouse, unmarried romantic partner, and romantic rival are counted separately. These rows remain visible even when a category falls outside the overall Top 10.
All cases
Top Recorded Motives
Jealousy
1924
Revenge
1556
Control/domination
1257
Money / Financial Gain
694
Eliminate spouse
636
Eliminate romantic partner
609
Fear of exposure
510
Desire for new relationship
443
All cases
Most Common Contributing Factors
Family pressure
1539
Divorce / Separation
1531
Cheating / Infidelity
1292
Financial stress or disputes
1110
Suspicion of infidelity
1060
Domestic abuse or violence reported
909
Mental instability
386
Drugs / Alchohol Use
289
A case may include multiple contributing factors. Reported factors describe the available case information and do not prove causation or population prevalence.
Relationship violence
Motives Recorded in Relationship Violence
Jealousy
1924
Revenge
1556
Control/domination
1257
Money / Financial Gain
694
Eliminate spouse
636
Eliminate romantic partner
609
Fear of exposure
510
Desire for new relationship
443
All public cases
General Warning Signs
Escalation Pattern / Violence
2762
Threats
2333
Divorce Pending / Recent Separation
1837
Manipulative behavior
1309
Deception after incident
1074
Secret affair
980
Secretive communication patterns
821
High-Conflict Household
705
These are the warning signs most often recorded in the selected public cases. One case may contain multiple signs, and their presence does not by itself establish that violence will occur.
Extramarital cases
Common Recorded Red Flags
Escalation Pattern / Violence
1638
Threats
1391
Divorce Pending / Recent Separation
1156
Secret affair
883
Manipulative behavior
879
Deception after incident
694
Secretive communication patterns
649
High-Conflict Household
380
Communication patterns
Secretive Communication Signals
1074distinct cases
Secretive communication patterns
821
Secret phone communication
306
Private or hidden meetings
220
Hidden calls/messages found
164
Deleted calls/messages
42
Excessive phone usage
37
Hiding phone
19
Changed contact names
18
These signals were recorded in available case information. Their presence does not establish that they caused an incident. One case may contain multiple communication signals.
Recorded victims
Victims by Relationship Status
Married
2927
Dating
411
Ex-partners
311
Divorced
271
Live-in relationship
227
Separated
204
Engaged
195
Extramarital relationship
160
Counts reflect published case records only. “Unknown” includes information that was not reported or has not yet been classified. Suspects and offenders are shown separately and should not be interpreted as equivalent legal findings.