According to the source, 49-year-old Bob Dow was killed in Mineral Wells, Texas, in May 2005 after he repeatedly pursued 18-year-old Jennifer Jones, who was in a relationship with Bobbie Jo Smith. The source says Jones and Smith planned the killing, used Dow's revolver, staged an initial self-defense account, took money, drugs, weapons, and his pickup truck, and fled with family members and friends. They were later arrested in California, returned to Texas, and admitted the killing was planned. Jones pleaded guilty and received 48 years in prison; Smith was convicted as a participant and sentenced to 50 years.
Country: United States
State/Province: Texas, United States
City/Region: Mineral Wells
Incident Type: Murder
Relationship Status: Love triangle
Relationship Duration: Approximately 3 weeks (Jennifer Jones and Bobbie Jo Smith cohabitation before the murder)
Recorded context: Affair started / overlapping relationship
Reported initiator: Alleged suspect / offender
Relationship timing: During marriage or ongoing partnership, before separation
Incident Date: March 9, 2005
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How the relationship or connection began.
Approximately 3 weeks (Jennifer Jones and Bobbie Jo Smith cohabitation before the murder)
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2005-03-09
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Romantic Triangle
The source presents a romantic triangle involving Jennifer Jones, Bobbie Jo Smith, and Bob Dow. Smith and Jones formed an intense relationship after Smith was dating Jones's sister, while Dow provided resources and repeatedly pursued Jones. The reported combination of jealousy, drug use, dependency, perceived relationship interference, and access to a firearm preceded a planned homicide and joint flight.
Police were alerted by Bobbie Jo Smith's grandmother after Smith reportedly admitted killing Bob Dow. Officers found Dow dead on a bed with a bloody pillowcase over his head. A warrant was obtained, Crystal helped investigators locate a .25-caliber revolver, and the two women were arrested without incident in Blythe, California. Their initial self-defense accounts conflicted with scene evidence and later admissions that the killing had been planned. Both were charged with first-degree murder; Jones pleaded guilty and received 48 years, while Smith was convicted as a participant and received 50 years. The source does not provide complete court records or independent verification of every narrated detail.
The early accounts conflicted over who fired the shots and whether the killing was self-defense or premeditated. Jennifer Jones initially said Dow had tried to rape or assault her, while Bobbie Jo Smith gave a different account of the struggle. Family members also heard conflicting admissions from Jones and Smith about who had shot Dow. Both later admitted that the killing had been planned, but the source includes continuing disagreement from a family member about Jones's precise role in the fatal shots.
The source places the relationship in Mineral Wells, where Bobbie Jo Smith met Jennifer Jones through Jones's sister Audrey and quickly began a secret relationship with her. Jones moved into the household shared with Smith and Bob Dow, and the source describes several weeks of heavy drug and alcohol use, financial dependence, sexual exploitation, and increasing conflict after Dow pursued Jones. After Jones reported that Dow had touched or propositioned her, the couple allegedly planned revenge, positioned Dow's revolver, used sexual deception to isolate him, and shot him. They then took property, recruited family and friends into a flight west, discarded the weapon and other evidence, and offered inconsistent accounts before later admitting premeditation.
The source describes multiple high-risk indicators: escalating jealousy and possessiveness, drug and alcohol use, prior violent behavior attributed to Jennifer Jones, reported coercive influence within the relationship, access to a firearm, threats to the relationship, and explicit planning. The source also reports post-incident deception, evidence disposal, flight, and stated fantasies about a dramatic confrontation with police. These are source-grounded risk indicators, not a clinical or predictive assessment.
The source depicts an intense and unstable relationship reinforced by shared substance use, rule-breaking, dependency, possessiveness, and perceived romantic rivalry. Important warning indicators included repeated unwanted pursuit of a partner, escalating anger, prior violence, firearm access, explicit revenge discussions, and post-incident deception. The case also illustrates how companions can become witnesses, sources of corroboration, or participants in flight without all sharing the same level of involvement.
The most significant reported early signals were rapid relationship escalation, secrecy around the transition from Audrey to Jennifer, heavy drug and alcohol use, possessive statements that Jennifer was exclusively Smith's, family concerns that Smith controlled or isolated Jennifer, prior violent outbursts attributed to Jennifer, and Dow's repeated pursuit of Jennifer despite objections.
The reported admissions to family members, the grandmother's call to police, the bloody pillowcase at the scene, the discarded shell casings, the recovered .25-caliber revolver, the stolen pickup truck, the inconsistent self-defense narratives, and later admissions of planning helped connect the suspects to the homicide.
The source presents the physical scene, the victim's body position and bloody pillowcase, the recovered revolver, witness and family statements, the suspects' changing accounts, and their later admissions as the strongest reported evidence. The source also says investigators relied on inconsistencies between the statements and the scene evidence.
Kathy Jones reportedly said Jennifer admitted killing Dow and claimed he had tried to rape or assault her. Dorothy reportedly told police that Bobbie Jo Smith said she had shot Dow and that Jennifer confirmed the account. Crystal reportedly helped investigators locate the discarded revolver. Police said Dow was found dead with a bloody pillowcase over his head. A family member later said she did not believe Jones fired the fatal shots.
Follow-up reporting changed the case from an apparent self-defense claim to a reported planned homicide. The suspects initially described an assault and struggle, but investigators found the accounts inconsistent with the scene, and both later admitted the killing was premeditated. Later court outcomes established Jones's guilty plea and Smith's conviction, according to the source.
The source leaves some uncertainty about the exact sequence of shots, each woman's precise physical role during the killing, the legal details beyond the reported sentences, and whether every narrated psychological interpretation was independently documented. The source also contains inconsistent spellings of Bobbie Jo Smith and Bob Dow's name.