Hirasawa Toshino, a 25-year-old Japanese bar manager and aspiring influencer, was fatally stabbed in Tokyo on May 8, 2024, by Wakai Manabu, a 51-year-old former friend who had become romantically obsessed with her. The source reports that Manabu believed Toshino might marry him after he sold valuable possessions, borrowed against his family's home, and spent substantial sums at her business. After Toshino ended contact, reported her stalking, and obtained police intervention and a restraining order, Manabu continued following her online. He allegedly confronted her outside her apartment, restrained her, and stabbed her repeatedly. He was arrested at the scene, later convicted, and sentenced to 15 years in prison.
Country: Japan
State/Province: Tokyo, Japan
City/Region: Shinjuku
Incident Type: Murder
Relationship Status: One-sided love
Relationship Duration: Approximately 6 years (friendship and subsequent conflict)
Incident Date: May 8, 2024
Primary reported outcome: Homicide
Reported self-harm outcome: No suicide or attempt reported
Reported sequence: Order not reported / unclear
Additional victims reported: 0
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Approximately 6 years (friendship and subsequent conflict)
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2024-05-08
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Romantic Obsession
The source presents a progression from a friendship formed through a shared fan community to one-sided romantic attachment and perceived marriage expectations. Manabu interpreted customer-service attention as personal affection, made extreme financial sacrifices, and later reframed the failed relationship as betrayal and financial exploitation. Repeated demands, stalking, a prior police warning, and a restraining order preceded the fatal confrontation.
The source reports that Toshino complained to police in December 2021, that Manabu received a formal warning, and that he was arrested in 2022 for violating the stalking law after going to her apartment. He was released after 20 days and placed under a one-year restraining order, which he reportedly obeyed. On May 8, 2024, police arrested him at the scene after the stabbing. Toshino died in hospital after approximately one hour of attempted treatment. The source states that Manabu confessed substantially, denied initially intending to kill her, and claimed he wanted repayment and an apology. It reports a 15-year prison sentence and says journalists observed no apology or apparent remorse.
The incident was initially viewed by some as a financial dispute, while later investigation and reported statements indicated a broader pattern of romantic fixation, resentment, stalking, and revenge. Manabu claimed the money had been stolen or improperly taken, but the source says police found no evidence that it was forcibly taken and describes the spending as voluntary. The source is largely based on Manabu's account and police investigations, while Toshino's perspective and any complete financial records are unavailable.
Manabu and Toshino met through a Twice fan community and remained friends for about three years. After visiting her workplace, he interpreted professional attention and affectionate nicknames as evidence of love, proposed marriage, and sold assets and borrowed against his family's home. He also spent approximately 9 million yen on champagne towers and other money on her business. When Toshino ended contact, Manabu demanded repayment, repeatedly appeared at her workplace, located and monitored her home, and triggered police action. After a warning, an arrest, and a one-year restraining order, he resumed monitoring her livestreams. Following a livestream in which she criticized a former man, he took two knives, waited outside her building, confronted her after midnight, and fatally stabbed her.
The reported risk pattern was high and escalating: perceived romantic rejection, major financial sacrifice, loss of employment and assets, repeated demands for repayment, stalking, police intervention, a restraining order, online monitoring, and weapon preparation. The source does not establish that Toshino intended to cause the later violence, and it acknowledges that her perspective is unavailable.
The case illustrates the danger of interpreting commercial or socially attentive behavior as reciprocal romantic commitment. Major financial sacrifice, perceived rejection, repeated demands for money, stalking, prior police intervention, and weapon preparation were reported escalation indicators. A restraining order and temporary compliance did not eliminate the later risk. The source also cautions that the victim's perspective and the full nature of the financial exchanges remain unavailable.
The most important reported early signals were Manabu's rapid shift from friendship to marriage expectations, extreme financial sacrifices, loss of his vehicle and delivery work, repeated demands for money, daily visits to Toshino's workplace, online monitoring, locating her home, and the prior police warning and restraining order.
The reported connection came from the prior friendship, Manabu's repeated demands and stalking behavior, his monitoring of Toshino's livestreams, the May 7 livestream that preceded the confrontation, his presence outside her building, eyewitness observations, and his statements to police.
The strongest reported evidence types were the police complaint and warning, the 2022 stalking-law arrest, the restraining order, witnesses at the residential building, recordings reportedly made by bystanders, the physical scene, the victim's fatal injuries, and Manabu's reported admissions. The source does not provide documentary details about the financial transactions.
The source reports that residents heard Toshino scream and saw Manabu restraining and attacking her. Some bystanders reportedly filmed the incident and others called police, but the source says no one intervened physically. Police arrived and arrested Manabu at the scene. No direct witness quotations are provided.
Follow-up investigation reportedly changed the understanding from a simple financial dispute to a relationship-centered case involving one-sided romantic fixation, resentment, stalking, and revenge. Police statements and Manabu's reported admissions supplied much of the later account. The source says Toshino's perspective was not available.
The exact nature of Toshino's intentions toward Manabu, the complete financial accounting, whether she made any promise of marriage, and the full circumstances of their relationship remained unclear. The source also does not provide independent detail about the court record beyond the reported 15-year sentence.