According to the source, Paul Lambert, also identified earlier as Paul Skills, had a reported history of domestic violence, stalking, deception, threats, and protective orders involving several women. After meeting Dr. Angela through Tinder, he allegedly became possessive and harassed her when she tried to end the relationship. In late October 2016, he threatened Angela, obtained weapons and gasoline, concealed himself inside her Port Macquarie home, and attacked her with a knife on November 3, 2016. Angela escaped with help from neighbor Steve and survived after hospitalization. Lambert later confronted police while armed with a knife on a highway and died after officers shot him.
Country: Australia
State/Province: New South Wales, Australia
City/Region: Port Macquarie
Incident Type: Attempted Murder
Relationship Status: Dating
Relationship Duration: Several weeks
Recorded context: Affair started / overlapping relationship
Reported initiator: Alleged suspect / offender
Relationship timing: During marriage or ongoing partnership, before separation
Incident Date: Nov. 3, 2016
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2016-11-03
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Domestic Violence
The source describes a recurring pattern in which Paul allegedly presented a charming public image, formed relationships, then used possessiveness, deception, emotional blackmail, threats, stalking, and violence when partners attempted to leave. In Angela's case, the pattern escalated from intensive calls and messages to threats, surveillance, weapons acquisition, concealment inside her home, stabbing, and gasoline exposure. Reported prior complaints and protective orders indicate that the behavior was not isolated to one relationship.
Angela reported threats to police after an October 2016 event. Police reviewed Paul's records and found prior complaints, arrests, and protective orders. The source reports that Paul violated parole, concealed his location, rented a vehicle, bought a knife, axe, tape, and gasoline-related materials, attempted to buy a firearm, used a false name at a hotel, and hid inside Angela's home. After the attack, police tracked his rental car toward Sydney. He confronted officers with a knife and died after being shot when he allegedly attacked an officer. Angela survived after hospitalization. The source also reports that police recovered weapons and other items from the home and car.
The source contains inconsistent naming, identifying the subject at different points as Dennis Lambert, Paul Skills, and Paul Lambert. It also gives inconsistent counts for protective orders and contains narration errors involving names and pronouns. The source portrays Paul's post-attack statements as third-person speech and suicide threats, but it does not establish that his death was suicide; it reports that he died after police gunfire.
Paul allegedly met Angela through Tinder and initially appeared successful, humorous, caring, and socially acceptable. After several weeks, his reported possessiveness and intrusive contact intensified. Angela attempted to end the relationship, but Paul allegedly used emotional blackmail, an invented friend, threats, stalking, and in-person confrontation to maintain access. After Angela reported him, he remained nearby, acquired weapons, used a false hotel identity, and entered her home before attacking her. Her escape, Steve's intervention, emergency medical treatment, police tracking, and the later recovery of weapons and notes connected the reported relationship escalation to the attempted homicide.
The reported risk indicators were severe: repeated threats, stalking, prior domestic-violence complaints, protective orders, parole violations, access to weapons, attempted firearm acquisition, impersonation, concealment, jealousy, and direct threats against Angela's safety. The source reports that Angela survived a planned attack but sustained serious injuries. The assessment is source-limited and does not independently verify the allegations or medical diagnoses.
The source highlights the danger of escalating coercive control after a breakup, especially when stalking is combined with threats, jealousy, weapon acquisition, parole violations, and knowledge of a victim's home and workplace. Earlier protective orders and complaints involving other women were reported as important contextual warning signs. The account is useful for pattern comparison but contains naming and factual inconsistencies and should not be treated as independently verified.
The most important reported early signals were possessive behavior, relentless calls and messages, stalking, emotional blackmail, threats of suicide or violence, false identities, threats to expose private material, prior protective orders, and Paul's history of domestic violence complaints.
Reported clues included Angela's threatening messages and calls, Paul's prior protective-order history, his parole violation, the rental car, purchases of a knife, axe, tape, and other materials, the false hotel identity, surveillance footage, neighbor observations, Paul's concealment in the home, and his post-attack calls and messages.
The strongest reported evidence types were Angela's police reports, threatening communications and voice messages, protective-order and arrest records, surveillance footage, rental and purchase records, witness observations, the recovered weapons and materials, Paul's statements, and police tracking of the rental vehicle.
Angela described threats, stalking, and the attack. Steve reportedly heard her screams, saw her covered in blood and gasoline, helped her escape, and called emergency services. Angela's sister Danielle encouraged the police report. Neighbors reportedly saw an unidentified naked man inside Angela's home but did not report it. Officer Clarkson reviewed Paul's records. Police officers reportedly heard threats during telephone calls.
Follow-up reporting changed the understanding from a relationship harassment case to a planned attempted killing. Police discovered that Paul had remained in Port Macquarie, violated parole, attempted to obtain a firearm, rented a hotel room under a false name, acquired a knife, and hid inside Angela's home. The later search and Paul's post-attack communications reportedly supported the source's account of planning and escalation.
The source does not independently establish the exact number of protective orders, the precise legal charges arising from the Angela attack, or whether every reported mental-health diagnosis was professionally confirmed. It also does not fully clarify how Paul entered the home, the exact sequence of all weapon purchases, or the inconsistencies involving his names, dates, and identities. His death followed police shooting rather than a clearly reported completed suicide.