Jennifer Dulos, a 50-year-old mother of five living in New Canaan, disappeared on May 24, 2019 after taking her children to school. Police found blood in her garage, blood in her abandoned and damaged vehicle, and later Jennifer's blood on clothing and vehicle seats linked to Fetis Dulos. Fetis, Jennifer's estranged husband, was charged with murder, while his girlfriend Michelle Troconis was charged with conspiracy to commit murder. Fetis died after a carbon-monoxide suicide attempt in January 2020. Jennifer's body has not been found, and Michelle remained out on bail awaiting trial according to the source.
Country: United States
State/Province: Connecticut, United States
City/Region: New Canaan
Incident Type: Missing Person / Presumed Homicide
Relationship Status: Separated
Relationship Duration: Approximately 15 years (marriage)
Recorded context: Affair started / overlapping relationship
Reported initiator: Alleged suspect / offender
Relationship timing: During marriage or ongoing partnership, before separation
Incident Date: May 24, 2019
Primary reported outcome: Homicide
Reported self-harm outcome: Completed suicide
Person(s) reported to have died by or attempted suicide: Fetis Dulos
Reported role: Alleged suspect / offender
Reported sequence: Homicide or serious injury, then suicide or attempt
Additional victims reported: 0
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How the relationship or connection began.
Approximately 15 years (marriage)
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2019-05-24
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Infidelity
The reported relationship pattern involved a long marriage, an overlapping affair, separation, divorce litigation, and a high-conflict custody dispute. Jennifer alleged threats, intimidation, dangerous behavior, and firearm access, while Fetis denied those allegations and made counterclaims. The source describes a later disappearance treated as presumed homicide, with Fetis charged and Michelle accused of conspiracy, but the body and murder weapon were not recovered.
Jennifer was reported missing after failing to collect her children from school. Police issued a Silver Alert, searched her home and a large park, examined properties linked to Fetis's construction company, and investigated a recycling facility. Blood matching Jennifer was reportedly found in the garage, her vehicle, clothing recovered from trash bins, and replacement seats from a red Tacoma pickup truck. Fetis and Michelle were initially arrested on evidence-tampering and obstruction charges, later released on bail with monitoring conditions. In January 2020, Michelle was charged with conspiracy to commit murder and Fetis was charged with murder. Fetis later attempted suicide with carbon monoxide and died in hospital. Michelle remained out on bail awaiting trial, and the source states that electronic monitoring was removed in April 2023 while she remained available to authorities.
The source contains a major date inconsistency: the disappearance is repeatedly dated May 24, 2019, while the prosecution chronology refers to May 24, 2018. The body and murder weapon were never found, and the source says it was never confirmed that Fetis was the driver of the red Tacoma. Fetis denied involvement and his lawyer suggested Jennifer might have died by suicide, while investigators alleged a planned attack and concealment. Michelle's family denied her involvement, whereas investigators claimed she changed her account and knew more than she disclosed.
Jennifer disappeared shortly after dropping her children at school and was reportedly last seen entering a black vehicle. Her abandoned, damaged car, blood in the garage and vehicle, lack of phone or bank activity, and later recovery of bloodstained clothing shifted the case from a missing-person investigation to a presumed homicide inquiry. Investigators connected Fetis through phone-location data, surveillance in Hartford, alleged disposal of Jennifer's belongings, DNA findings, and blood on replacement truck seats. The source presents the prosecution theory that Fetis attacked Jennifer at her home, transported her body, and later returned to Michelle, but also records unresolved evidentiary gaps and competing denials.
The source describes elevated relationship risk associated with an unresolved divorce, custody conflict, alleged threats, alleged verbal abuse, firearm access, financial strain, an overlapping affair, and reported escalation. Blood evidence and alleged concealment actions led investigators to treat the disappearance as a presumed homicide. Responsibility remains legally unresolved in the source, and Michelle's involvement is disputed.
The source highlights how an overlapping affair, divorce litigation, custody conflict, alleged threats, financial strain, and firearm access can form a high-risk relationship context. The strongest reported investigative links were biological evidence, surveillance footage, vehicle-seat evidence, and digital-location information. The case remains source-limited because Jennifer's body and the alleged weapon were not recovered, the chronology contains conflicting dates, and legal responsibility was not finally adjudicated in the report.
The most important reported early signals were the deteriorating marriage, Fetis's alleged threats to take the children, alleged verbal abuse and intimidation, Jennifer's fear, the disputed firearm purchase, the custody conflict, financial strain, and Fetis's overlapping relationship with Michelle.
The reported clues included Jennifer's failure to return for her children, the damaged vehicle left in a park, blood in the garage and passenger seat, the absence of phone and bank activity, surveillance showing Fetis disposing of bags, Jennifer's blood on recovered clothing, DNA findings in the home, and blood on replacement Tacoma seats.
According to the source, the strongest evidence types were forensic blood and DNA comparisons, surveillance footage, phone-location data, vehicle evidence, recovered clothing, and the worker's account concerning the Tacoma seats. The source also states that the murder weapon and Jennifer's body were not recovered.
Nine regular park runners reportedly told police they had never seen Jennifer in the park. A worker reportedly provided the original Tacoma seats after replacing them. Michelle reportedly told police that she and Fetis were asleep, later played together, and showered on the day of the disappearance. Michelle's sister Claudia and Michelle's family publicly denied Michelle's involvement. The source does not provide an eyewitness account of the alleged attack.
Follow-up investigation changed the case from a missing-person inquiry to a presumed homicide investigation after blood and vehicle evidence were found. Fetis and Michelle were first arrested on evidence-tampering and obstruction allegations, and their charges were later upgraded to murder and conspiracy to commit murder. Fetis's death after a suicide attempt ended the possibility of a trial against him, while Michelle remained on bail awaiting trial according to the source.
Jennifer's whereabouts and fate were not conclusively established through body recovery. The identity of the red Tacoma driver was reportedly not confirmed, and the murder weapon was not found. The source also leaves unresolved whether Michelle knowingly participated, whether Fetis's suicide note was truthful, and whether the conflicting 2018 and 2019 dates reflect a reporting error.