James Ray III, a lawyer from Montlair, New Jersey, was convicted of murdering his lover Angela Bledsoe in October 2018. The relationship began as an affair while James was married. Angela later had an affair with another man, Bari Burns, which James discovered. After Angela planned to leave James, he shot her multiple times at their home. James fled the country but was arrested in Cuba and extradited to New Jersey. He was convicted in 2023 but died of a drug overdose in jail before sentencing, leading to dismissal of charges.
Country: United States
State/Province: New Jersey, United States
City/Region: Montlair
Incident Type: Murder
Relationship Status: Divorced
Relationship Duration: Approximately 7 years (affair)
Recorded context: Affair started / overlapping relationship
Relationship timing: During marriage or ongoing partnership, before separation
Incident Date: Oct. 22, 2018
Primary reported outcome: Homicide
Reported self-harm outcome: No suicide or attempt reported
Person(s) reported to have died by or attempted suicide: James Ray III
Reported role: Alleged suspect / offender
Reported sequence: Order not reported / unclear
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Approximately 7 years (affair)
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2018-10-22
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Affair-Loving Lawyer Flees New Jersey After Leaving a Mysterious Note | James Ray III Analysis
Infidelity
The relationship began as an extramarital affair and ended in violence after the victim engaged in another affair. The conflict centered on jealousy, infidelity, and custody concerns, culminating in a fatal shooting and the suspect fleeing the jurisdiction.
Police found the victim shot multiple times; the murder weapon was not recovered. The suspect fled to Cuba but was arrested and extradited. Trial resulted in conviction, but suspect died before sentencing. Evidence included a note claiming self-defense, a detailed journal, and forensic reconstruction of the shooting.
The suspect claimed self-defense, but evidence contradicted this. The defense argued victim manipulation but did not explain key facts. The suspect's death before sentencing led to dismissal of charges, complicating legal closure.
James Ray III and Angela Bledsoe had an affair starting in 2011 while James was married. Angela later had an affair with Bari Burns. After James discovered Angela's infidelity, she planned to leave him. On October 22, 2018, James shot Angela multiple times at their home. He fled, leaving their daughter with his brother. Police found Angela dead and evidence of the shooting. James was arrested abroad and extradited. He was convicted but died in jail before sentencing.
High risk due to history of infidelity, escalating jealousy, threats, and possession of firearms. The suspect's flight and detailed planning indicate significant risk of harm.
Affairs often lead to complex and volatile relationship dynamics. Terminating relationships with jealous partners can be dangerous. Flight after a violent incident complicates legal processes. Detailed personal writings can provide insight into offender mindset.
The affair, Angela's subsequent infidelity, and James's discovery of the second affair were key early signals of escalating conflict.
Text messages between Angela and Bari, James's phone call threatening Bari, and the note left by James indicating a shooting were critical clues.
Forensic evidence of gunshot wounds, absence of victim's fingerprints on the nearby gun, and James's journal were strongest evidence types.
Robert Ray expressed serious concern over James's behavior and found the note indicating a shooting. Police confirmed the victim's death and reconstructed the shooting timeline. No other witness statements reported.
Follow-up reports revealed James's arrest in Cuba, extradition, trial, conviction, and subsequent death in jail, which led to dismissal of charges.
Uncertainty remains about the exact circumstances of the shooting, the suspect's intent, and whether his death was intentional or accidental.