Jordan de May, a 17-year-old high school senior from Market, Michigan, committed suicide after being targeted in a sextortion scam on Instagram. A fake profile named Danny Roberts contacted him, manipulated him into sending nude photos, and then blackmailed him for money. Despite paying some ransom, the threats escalated, leading Jordan to send a farewell message to his mother before taking his own life with his father's pistol. The investigation revealed the scam was operated by Nigerian brothers Samuel and Samson Ogoshi, who pleaded guilty to extorting Jordan and many others. The case highlights the dangers of online sextortion and the challenges in combating international cybercrime.
Country: United States
State/Province: Michigan, United States
City/Region: Market
Incident Type: Suicide
Relationship Status: Dating
Relationship Duration: 1 year
Incident Date: March 25, 2022
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The incident centers on a sextortion scam targeting a dating teenager, leading to suicide. While the relationship between Jordan and Kyler was stable, the external criminal exploitation via social media caused fatal distress. The pattern involves online sexual blackmail rather than direct interpersonal relationship conflict.
Detective Lowell Larson led the investigation, uncovering the sextortion scam. Meta initially delayed emergency data access, requiring a court order. Nigerian suspects Samuel and Samson Ogoshi were arrested and extradited to the US, pleading guilty in 2024. The case highlights challenges in international cybercrime and social media company responsibilities.
Initial confusion about the cause of Jordan's suicide due to lack of mental health issues or farewell note. The sextortion scam was only revealed after investigation and data access. The fake profile and international scam network complicated identification.
Jordan received a message from a fake Instagram profile, was manipulated into sending nude photos, and blackmailed for money. Despite paying, threats escalated, leading to his suicide. Investigation traced the scam to Nigerian brothers operating a network of hacked accounts. The timeline from initial contact to suicide spanned six hours.
High risk due to online exploitation, mental health deterioration, and lack of protective measures against sextortion scams. The victim's young age and social media exposure increased vulnerability.
Sextortion scams pose severe risks to young social media users. Early detection and rapid data access by authorities are critical. Social media platforms' delayed cooperation can hinder investigations. Awareness and protective measures are essential to prevent similar tragedies.
The sudden Instagram message from an unknown profile and the demand for nude photos were early signals. The rapid escalation of threats and financial extortion were critical warning signs.
Screenshots of threats, knowledge of Jordan's personal details, and the hacked Instagram profile were key clues connecting the scam to the suspects.
Chat logs, screenshots of threats, bank account screenshots, IP address tracing, and Google search histories of suspects were strongest evidence.
Kyler reported receiving threatening messages and Jordan's cryptic texts. Jordan's parents and friends noted his unusual late-night activity and distress. Detective Larson's team observed inconsistencies at the scene.
Follow-up reports revealed the international scam network behind the fake profile and the arrest and guilty plea of the Nigerian suspects. Initial assumptions of spontaneous suicide were revised to include sextortion as the cause.
The full extent of the scam network and all accomplices remain unclear. The responsibility of social media companies in preventing such crimes is still under legal scrutiny.